![]() The common misconception that it’s easy money has led to Twitter becoming saturated with “fake findommes” who are “ruining it” for professionals-and finsubs who are looking for those professionals-according to a number of findommes I spoke with. When it comes to the actual economics of making a living in findom, there are a number of other factors that come into play. ![]() ![]() It's not about “women being superior,” it's about men choosing to give up their power to women they see fit to hold it. The whole basis of financial domination is power exchange. She says that a huge mistake a lot of women make is learning to be a findomme without learning to be a domme first. Nix describes herself as an “ethical” findomme who cares about her finsubs. She says that findom has changed her life as someone who deals with mental illness-it’s made her more confident and financially stable than before. “There’s an imbalance in the way money is distributed in society and findom takes some of that power back,” says Princess Nix, a findomme who usually works off Fetlife and who has struggled with the financial hardships that come from health issues. Otherwise, finsubs can spot a fake findomme pretty quickly.Īs Chrissie says, dominance can be the softest of things. This takes skill only learned from spending time in not only the findom industry, but the fetish industry, and why patience is so important when wanting to become a findomme. But at the same time, it means wanting the best for your finsub and knowing where their limits are. Being a real findomme means taking control of your finsub and understanding how to get into his head.
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